{"id":781,"date":"2014-03-27T23:19:37","date_gmt":"2014-03-27T22:19:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.stefanopitrelli.com\/?p=781"},"modified":"2014-03-28T10:10:29","modified_gmt":"2014-03-28T09:10:29","slug":"in-italy-gay-catholics-feel-the-francis-effect","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.stefanopitrelli.com\/?p=781","title":{"rendered":"In Italy, gay Catholics feel the \u2018Francis Effect\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"

By Anthony Faiola \/\u00a0Stefano Pitrelli contributed to\u00a0this report<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"TWP2832014\"<\/a>FLORENCE, Italy \u2014 The power of the Catholic Church in Italy has forced thousands of gays and lesbians to live in the shadows, and the opposition of bishops made this the only nation in Western Europe to withhold legal rights from same-sex couples. But gay Catholics here now speak of a new ray of light from what they call \u201cl\u2019effetto Francesco.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

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Alessandro Penso<\/a>\u00a0\/ OnOff Picture for The Washington Post – Giulia Masieri, 32, is given Communion during the Mass held by Don Andrea Bigalli in the Church of Sant’Andrea in Florence, Italy. The parish welcomes gay Catholics.<\/span><\/p>\n

The Francis Effect<\/strong><\/p>\n

On Thursday, President Obama met with Pope Francis at the Vatican, at at time when the new pontiff is upending church conventions and opening new doors. In their first face-to-face encounter, the two leaders \u2014 who have sought to bring change to their respective offices \u2014 focused on issues ranging from growing inequality to the challenges of global conflicts.<\/p>\n

But for the pope, perhaps no one issue illustrates his divergence from tradition more than early signs of rapprochement between the church and gay Catholics.<\/p>\n

Francis\u2019s shift so far has been one of style over substance; nothing in the church\u2019s teachings on homosexuality has yet changed, and conservative clerics remain deeply skeptical of any radical move toward broad acceptance. But few places offer a better snapshot of the church\u2019s evolving relationship with its gay flock than here in Italy, the host of Vatican City and where Roman Catholicism wields outsized influence.<\/p>\n

In 2007, opposition by Catholic bishops helped defeat a proposal to establish a civil partnerships law. Facing ostracizing and shame, large numbers of gay Catholics remain terrified of exposure. For a nation that legalized divorce and abortion as far back as the 1970s, homosexuality remains the last taboo.<\/p>\n

Among the gaggle of conservative cardinals and bishops of the Italian church, little has outwardly changed since Francis\u2019s arrival, and the hope of Italian gays and lesbians to match their European peers with rights for same-sex couples still remains a medium-term goal at best. But the influence on the ground of Francis\u2019s words and deeds \u2014 including a recent suggestion that the church may look more closely at the issue of civil unions \u2014 have begun to create what gay Catholics here describe as a burgeoning spirit of acceptance in pockets of the church\u2019s grass roots.<\/p>\n

In Florence, a local parish council this month permitted a group of gay Catholics to hold their first public prayer session inside a Roman Catholic church. In Rome, a parish run by Jesuit priests announced a special service scheduled for April that, also for the first time in recent memory, is openly reaching out to gays and lesbians as well as divorced Catholics. A leaflet for the service depicts Francis on the cover and reads: \u201cThe Church wants to be home. For Everybody.\u201d<\/p>\n

Prompted by a new Vatican questionnaire seeking views on family issues including same-sex couples, a representative of the dioceses of Padua held a landmark meeting last December with a gay Catholic group. Luigi Pescina, a spokesman for the group, said members were told that local church officials would now aim to \u201cstrip ourselves of prejudice and fear\u201d and \u201copen up a relationship of exchange and enrichment\u201d with local gay Catholics.<\/p>\n

Testing boundaries<\/strong><\/p>\n

Most of all, the new pope\u2019s words and deeds have emboldened liberal Italian priests to push boundaries they never would have underBenedict XVI<\/a>.<\/p>\n

From his perch at the millennia-old Sant\u2019Alessandro parish nestled high above the olive groves of Tuscany, for instance, the Rev. Giorgio Mazzanti has long baptized the children of unmarried parents and offers the Eucharist to divorced worshipers. But he recently set a new standard for progressive clerics here by authorizing local actors to stage a production of \u201cBent,\u201d the 1979 Martin Sherman play about the persecution of gays in Nazi Germany.<\/p>\n

The four sold-out shows \u2014 performed in a hall that shares a common wall with this village\u2019s ancient Catholic church \u2014 depicted two men who fall in love at the Dachau concentration camp. At one point, the two male leads kiss.<\/p>\n

\u201cIt seemed to me to be the right thing to do, to give space to this issue now,\u201d said Mazzanti, 66, the longtime pastor at Sant\u2019Alessandro. \u201cThe atmosphere created by our new pope has, in a sense, made it official for us to have a more open door.\u201d<\/p>\n

Supporters of an anti-discrimination law stalled in Italy\u2019s parliament, meanwhile, have found themselves quoting Francis to devout opponents. Perhaps more important, gay Catholics say Francis\u2019s statements have begun to ease the minds of churchgoing family members.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe conservatives have still not changed their positions, but I see something happening with the inclusive spirit of the new pope,\u201d said Anna Paola Concia, the first openly lesbian member of the Italian parliament and now a special adviser to the president on human rights.<\/p>\n

Francis \u2014 who as cardinal of Buenos Aires vociferously opposed gay marriage \u2014 shocked many last July by asking: \u201cIf someone is gay and he searches for the Lord and has good will, who am I to judge?\u201d<\/p>\n

In recent weeks, Francis has offered further signs of staking out new territory. In an interview this month with the Italian newspaper Corriere della Sera, he reiterated the church\u2019s position that marriage itself should be \u201cbetween a man and a woman\u201d but seemed to leave room for other forms of recognition.<\/p>\n

While cautioning that the pope has not come \u201cout and approved\u201d civil partnerships, Cardinal Timothy Dolan said on \u201cMeet the Press\u201d this month that church officials had been told by Francis that \u201crather than quickly condemn\u201d them, \u201clet\u2019s just ask the questions as to why that has appealed to certain people.\u201d<\/p>\n

A new era?<\/strong><\/p>\n

A brief drive from the magnificent Duomo of Florence, down a street far from the omnipresent crowds of tourists, stands the far less remarkable Our Lady of the Cough Catholic Church.<\/p>\n

One of a handful of liberal parishes in Tuscany, the church began quietly allowing a local gay Catholic group, Kairos, to start using the parish hall five years ago for monthly meetings.<\/p>\n

The agreement, however, was based on the group keeping a low profile. Kairos could not, for instance, use the church\u2019s name or address on its Web site.<\/p>\n

But this month, with the parish council\u2019s blessing, the group held its first public prayer session. Non-members were welcomed. Details were posted on the church bulletin board.<\/p>\n

\u201cIt may seem small, but for us, this is important,\u201d said Innocenzo Pontillo, coordinator of the 11-year-old group. \u201cIt is like feeling the light on your face. These are things which I feel would have been impossible before Pope Francis.\u201d<\/p>\n

New members of the group, like Anna Maria \u2014 a 35-year-old lesbian who was too afraid of being \u201couted\u201d to give her last name \u2014 have come to see the pope\u2019s comments on homosexuality last July as a personal turning point.<\/p>\n

She said her devoutly Catholic mother called her after hearing the pope\u2019s declaration. The two of them had grown distant since Anna Maria had told her mother she was a lesbian years earlier. \u201cBut when she called me, she said, \u2018If the pope is not judging you, then who am I to judge you either?\u2019\u2009\u201d<\/p>\n

Gay activists in Italy say it is far too soon to tell whether Francis will truly usher in a new era here. And for each priest who is partaking in an opening, there are probably 20 others who are not. One Tuscan priest, for instance, has recently become known for posting religious condemnations of gays and lesbians on his Facebook page.<\/p>\n

Anna Berni, a 72-year-old worshiper at Sant\u2019Alessandro, for instance, said she fails to see the need for more openness toward gays and lesbians. \u201cWhat I can\u2019t stand is arrogance, the imposition of difference,\u201d she said. \u201cThere are limits for each one of us. They\u2019re overturning family and society because those who are different want more rights.\u201d<\/p>\n

Priests like the Rev. Giacomo Stinghi \u2014 the 80-year-old pastor at Our Lady of the Cough \u2014 are also bracing for a possible scolding from the region\u2019s conservative cardinal. But so far, none has come. He said he and other liberal priests in the area have written to the cardinal in the past, asking for a more inclusive approach. He never responded.<\/p>\n

\u201cBut now,\u201d he said, \u201cthe new holy father has come along and solved our problem.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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